I know I frustrated you yesterday when I kept changing my mind as I approached the metering light to the on-ramp. The traffic ahead of me was doing the same and I didn't want to be the fourth car in one lane if only one car was ahead of me in the other. Maybe you couldn't see what the cars ahead of me were doing and you were only paying attention to my car. We had our windows open because my air conditioner is broken. That gave you the perfect opportunity to yell into my car "Dude pick a lane and stick with it."
I didn't respond because 1. I'm not a dude and that should be obvious to anyone looking at me and 2. I had all three of my kids in the car and I need to set a good example for them and yelling at random motorcyclists on freeway on-ramps isn't a good example. We're supposed to turn the other cheek, so I did. I hope that you felt better and calmer after yelling at a middle aged woman in a junker car full of teenagers.
We were in rush hour traffic and I'm sure you were just on your way home. I don't live in Portland, I was lost and hoping that the map app on my phone wasn't leading me astray. You see, we had to drive to Portland in my 17 year old car with the broken air conditioning to see a liver specialist at Oregon Health and Science University for my son. We can't afford a better car or to fix this car right now because despite having good insurance we still have too many medical bills.
I may be having more difficulty lately making decisions because I've had to make so many. I have to make decisions that can affect my son for the rest of his life. Should he take this medication that may save his life right now but cause a tumor later that may take it? Should I put him through another liver biopsy when the last one gave me nightmares for weeks? Should I pay this medical bill this week or buy food for my growing teens? What will I do if my company lays me off this month or next? You see, those decisions are more important to me than which lane I should occupy, even if my indecision is driving you nuts.
I know you will probably never see this entry in my blog but I still want to say I'm sorry that I made your commute more difficult yesterday. I hope you can accept my apology and be a little more human in your next interaction with a random stranger because you never know what battles they are fighting.
